When our loved ones pass away, honoring their memory is a small piece of healing. Part of this is knowing our friends, family, and loved ones will have a common place to reconnect with them. The headstone is a loving way to pay tribute to those we’ve lost, marking a permanent resting place for people to visit throughout the generations. 

Choosing a suitable headstone is an overwhelming process, especially when navigating through grief. After losing my son, selecting the proper headstone became intimidating. After all, it’s not every day you shop for a headstone.

This article will discuss the different types of headstones and how much they’ll cost to honor your loved one.

How Much Do Headstones Cost?

Several factors can influence the headstone price point, although the average cost of a flat headstone is approximately $1,000. For those individuals wanting an upright headstone, expect to pay $2,000. The pricing will vary depending on many factors, including the cost of the stone, upkeep costs, graving requirements, and the size of the product. A family or double headstone can cost upwards of $10,000.

On top of the initial headstone purchase price, engraving comes at an additional fee. The engraving process commemorates your loved one, making it a critical consideration. Some individuals choose to have a name, dates of birth, and death dates, while others may want a message on the stone. Generally, engraving will cost $20 per character on the headstone for the first 20 characters. Any additional letters will typically cost $10 each. 

Instead of engraving the stone, a few people engrave a plaque and mount it directly on the headstone. The plaque costs between $100-$300.   

What Types of Materials Are Used for Headstones?

Typically, two primary materials are used for flat and upright headstones. The stone determines a large proportion of both headstones, so it’s a critical consideration before purchasing.

Granite is the more popular option, as it remains more durable than marble. Additionally, granite is cheaper than marble, although the size and color may impact the pricing. Currently, a granite stone is approximately $450. The material used for the headstone will determine the cost of both flat and upright headstones.

Marble is an aesthetically pleasing option for many individuals, bringing a sleek finish to the headstone. The average costs for marble headstones are between $1,500 and $1,800.

What are the Different Types of Headstones? 

A few different types of headstones are available, depending on individual preference, budget, and the departed's wishes. These options include an upright headstone, companion upright, slant headstone, flat headstone, bench headstone, plinth wing, and children’s headstones.

Upright Headstone

These stones are the most traditional, composed of two core elements: the die (the tablet) and the base. The die is the slab of stone on the base, containing the personal information.

Companion Headstone

The companion headstone is a larger material that accommodates two individuals. These are common for partners or family members wanting to rest together. Companion headstones include the personal information of both individuals, although these details are commonly added afterward.

Slant Headstones

A slant headstone is like an upright headstone but offers easier viewing for guests. The slant headstone is vertical in the back but slanted in the front, giving the die a stockier shape.

Flat Headstone

Flat headstones are level with the ground, setting them flush (completely level) with the earth or set raised. A flat marker is rectangular and is usually 4 inches thick. The bevel headstone raises slightly in the back, giving it a slight slope. This option is thicker than flat headstones.

Bench Headstone

A bench headstone is used in cemeteries as a grave marker and in public areas for viewing. They allow visitors a place to sit and reflect with loved ones. Bench options are elaborate, with several different options available.

Plinth Wing Headstones

The plinth wing headstone has “wings” on the base, separated by a pedestal supporting a vase. The plinth displays the family name, and the two wings offer individual customization. These headstones are large, with the base sitting six and a half feet long.

Children’s Headstones

Personalizing such a devastating loss isn’t easy. Many options are available for children, including toys, teddy bears, angels, and similar designs that become visual tributes to the loss.

Factors that Affect the Cost of the Headstone

A headstone is more than just a physical mark for someone’s final resting place; the legacy goes with it. Choosing a headstone is a necessary process. A few factors may influence the cost, including size, material, personalization, and design details. Additionally, engraving will come at an additional expense.

Memorial Shape and Size

The larger the headstone, the higher the cost. Depending on the chosen style, a headstone may cost hundreds to thousands of dollars.

Memorial Material

Although granite is considered a common choice, not all is equal. Granite is available in a variety of colors, grades, and options. Always consider the color and grade of the granite, as it will influence the general durability, density, and integrity.

Memorial Personalization

The personalization of the headstone can influence the pricing, depending on the script, engraving, etching methods, and additional carvings. Headstone lettering styles include laser engraved, square-sunk, V-sunk, or skin-traced.

Ceramic or Porcelain Photos

Photos are often used as an alternative to laser etching, which allows individuals to add a photograph of their loved one. The cost starts at $265 for the smallest option and increases depending on the color and finish.

Carvings, Sculptures, or Memorial Vases

Sculptures, carvings, and memorial vases add a unique personalization to the headstone, allowing fresh flowers to be placed at the site. In-ground vases start at $65, while vases attached to the memorial are $165.

Caring for the Headstone

Headstones will get dirty over time, as dirt, debris, and rain can cause damage. Keeping the headstone clean will preserve the appearance of the gravesite and improve longevity. Cleaning the headstone will depend on the material. Always talk to the provider to request a specific cleaning solution.

Start by drenching the stone with a hose, spray bottle, or bucket. Scrub the entire space using a soft brush and the given cleaning solution. Make sure you rinse the headstone entirely with fresh water when finished. While scrubbing the headstone, inspect it carefully for signs of damage. Damage is cracks, chips, or discoloration. Contact a restoration company to perform repairs before the stone breaks further.

How to Get a Free Headstone

Currently, the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) allows a government marker or headstone for the unmarked grave of an eligible Veteran. This benefit applies to any cemetery worldwide, regardless of when they passed.

Some Veterans may qualify for either a government headstone or marker for the grave or a medallion to fasten to the private marker.

Final Thoughts

A headstone or marker is a critical piece to commemorate a loved one’s memory. Whether you choose the traditional upright headstone or an elaborate bench headstone, understanding the best option for your needs and budget is the first step in your decision-making process. Elayne is here to help you navigate the grief and legacy planning process. Contact us today and find out how we can make your legacy planning easier.